The very first thing you need to do is to explore with your partner. In fact, there are sayings that every part of our bodies is a sex organ. This can be very true. You can try to kiss every part of his or her body. And she or he can do it for you as a return. This kind of interaction can help you to understand better how you will be turned on. If you find that a particular position or part can turn you on easily, you may try to do the same at the next time. Of course you should also keep exploring new opportunities otherwise you will just feel boring eventually.
Besides, you should try to take everything easy when you are having sex. Any interruption in the mood will completely turn you off, no matter you are a man or a woman. As a result, you should not worry so much or think too much when you are having sex. You should just do it and enjoy the pleasure with your partner. Of course you should also tell your partner to take everything easy since sex is an activity for more than one person.
You should also keep trying new toys in your sex life. In fact, sex toys can be excellent catalysts for a wonderful sex experience. However, some people are just reluctant to use sex toys without reasons. Some of them may think that the toys are useless since they have their own sex organs. However, the above are totally wrong. Sex toys should be a part of your exploration. They can also be good tools for foreplay. As a result you should be open to all kinds of sex toys, as long as they do not hurt your physically.
The last point is about safe sex. Always use a condom when you are having sex. You should still use it even if you have one and only one sex partner. This is the best way to protect both of you and your partner. Of course the story will be different if you are aiming at a child. However, in this case you should have a thorough body check beforehand.
By Jerry
